A lady who met an older man on Tinder has revealed details about her romantic life.
Carrie Leigh, 30, first met Randy, 63, on Tinder when she was 27. Her objective was to have some fun with the man’s money.
“I actually thought it was going to be more of a business transaction,” Carrie revealed on the Love Don’t Judge YouTube series.
Their bond, however, grew deeper and has already lasted years.
Carrie is now a proud “stay-at-home girlfriend” and OnlyFans creator three years later, with her boyfriend paying her lifestyle.
“What first drew me to him was that he took a lot of vacations,” she explained.
“When I first met Randy, my intention was to basically milk him dry.” I wanted to get everything I could from him and then leave.”
However, as time passed, she stated that she realized she wanted to stay with him in the long run.
Randy has moved her to Maryland.
Randy has two older sons than Carri. He recalled the early phases of their relationship, when Carrie frequently messaged him for money.
“I would get a message [saying], ‘Hey, can you do me a favor and help me out because, you know, I’m low on money,'” he recalled, with Carrie agreeing that was certainly how she acted.
Then, all of a sudden, she stopped messaging him and decided to focus on putting her life back on track.
“I hadn’t messaged him in months,” she explained. ‘I’m going to change my life, I’m going to do the right thing, I’m going to find a job,’ I told myself.
Randy checked in because he hadn’t heard from Carrie in a few months, and she was walking to work one day because she didn’t have a car. This rekindled their romance.
Randy generously offered to buy her a car because he was concerned about her lack of transportation.
“I ended up buying her a BMW,” the entrepreneur explained.
They began long-distance dating, but after a year Carrie decided to go meet Randy in person, saying she was beginning to feel guilty about not having met him in person.
“I felt sorry that I was kind of neglecting him and his feelings when he was doing so much for me,” she said.
Carrie didn’t aware she had feelings for Randy until they were having breakfast one day.
“He sat me down one day and said ‘make a list of all your problems and we’ll check them off one by one,'” she added.
“And probably a week later he said to me ‘if you give me a year I’ll change your life.'”
Their age difference is often problematic for the couple, with the OnlyFans author recalling a few occasions when servers asked her what her father intended to order at restaurants.
“People typically assume that I’m a gold digger or I have daddy issues,” she said.
Randy joined in, stating she doesn’t believe his much-younger girlfriend is taking advantage of him.
“I’ve seen a change in the way she treats me in the beginning [compared to the] last two or three years,” he told me.
Carrie, he says, “really cares” about him and reminds him to do things like take his medication.
She said: “I had a different mindset [when we first met], but when you fall in love with somebody then you appreciate them for what they are.”
They claim that their loved ones have come to accept their relationship.
“Both of [my sons] actually thought, ‘Wow dad she’s hot as s**t,'” Randy said with a giggle.
